Online dating is surely going strong. Everyday, a lot of people join different online dating sites trying their luck to get their own online date. Some people even join several dating sites at the same time, probably hoping that their odds of snagging an online date would be boosted.

The question is, how come some people aren’t successful in getting a date?

Here’s a video from CNN.com and they tackle the deal breakers for women when it comes to online dating. Reggie Aqui interviews Amelia Parry, Editor at The Frisky, and she explains what turns off women when it comes to online dating.

I suggest that you listen carefully to the discussion and remember all of Amelia’s online dating advice. There are a lot of online dating tips you can get from their discussion which you can use to improve your own online dating experience.

Hello, this is your Online Date Man ready to talk to you about profile photos again! This time, I won’t preach about using old pictures as an absolute no-no. For now, we will talk about another way of fooling your potential date. And no, I’m not even talking about photoshopping your picture.

Another way of cheating how you look like in a picture is the use of camera angles. There’s nothing wrong with taking pictures of your best angle, this is perfectly alright. What I’m trying to drive at is, don’t use angles to hide what you really look like. Look, if you meet your online date in person and he or she discovers that you look nothing like your picture, then your date would really be disappointed. Yes, you got your foot in the door, but that door is likely going to be slammed in your face. And I promise you it is going to hurt – a lot.

When this happens you can’t accuse your online date as being shallow. Why? You lied to your online date in the first place! Ok, let’s analyze the situation. The fact that you will use camera angles to change how you look like is because you don’t like your original appearance in the first place. Now, if you yourself don’t like your looks, how can you expect others to like them?

And let’s be clear on this. Humans are designed to change and to adapt. If you feel that you don’t look great, then go through a make-over. If you feel that you are really fat, then go through a weight loss program. Do these things to make yourself feel better and for the obvious health reasons. You think your face is riddled with acne? Go to a dermatologist. If you think you have a set of crooked teeth, then an orthodontist is just waiting for you at his clinic.

If you think that these are expensive indulgences, then get a second job, save, and live within your means. I tell you, looking good and feeling great can boost your confidence. And when your confidence is up, your online dating life will flourish. You can’t put a price tag on that.

To see more pictures, click the link or the photo above. I hope this online dating advice helped you understand the importance of being truthful to your online dates. If they like what they see, then great! If they don’t, then they’re not worth your time and attention. I’ll see you again for more online dating tips. Happy dating!

Hi there. This is your Online Date Man and I’m here to talk to you about something really important. If you go to any site which gives online dating advice, you will always see the phrase, “always put most recent photo” in your profile.

It seems that this has always been a mistake of many online daters out there. They always put pictures that look like they were taken by a prototype of the very first ever camera.

Kidding aside, there are many reasons why people love to use old pictures. One is that this is probably their favorite photo because they likely look really good in it. Meaning, this is the only photograph they think they look pretty or handsome and no other photo of them can compare. Another reason is, they are not happy with how they currently look like, and so the old photo comes to the rescue to – literally – save face. And there are many other reasons, but these two are usually on top of the list.

You see, we here at InnoDating.com stress on the importance of recent photos. If you are ashamed of your big belly, then old pictures are not the answer to your problem. Work out! If you think you don’t look good enough, then give yourself a makeover. Don’t even think of Photoshop. You’re only kidding yourself, and your poor online date will just be disappointed in you. And we don’t want that to happen. Right?

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Not all women are looking for a six-pack, and same goes for men. There are women out there who want that lovable squeezable man belly. And there are a lot of men who go for the Big Beautiful Women (BBW) type. By using a Photoshopped or old photographs, you are just attracting the wrong people. Which may lead to your eventual disappointment.

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So, what again are the solutions to this problem? First, accept and love yourself. Always think that there are people out there who are not shallow and instead will look at your inner beauty. Now, if you are not satisfied with how you look and you want the six-pack abs, or the Hollywood star look, then you know what to do. Work on it and be proud about how you chiseled yourself into a better you.

Remember, the truth hurts, but it will set you free. This is your Online Date Man saying believe in yourself and happy dating!