Instead of fooling yourself and your online date, my online dating advice to you is to have that six-pack that you think would give you greater confidence. Yes, you have to work on it and don’t be lazy.

I’ve searched the internet for the best program I can find. And it seems that Mike Geary’s Truth About Six-Pack Abs is worth checking out. I have a friend who got the full program and he let me read Mike’s eBook. And I think I might try it as well. No, I will try it definitely. For health reasons, though!

So click the link. Click the video and listen to the audio. This is your Online Date Man wishing you happy dating!

Hello there, this is your Online Date Man and I feel this is a good week ahead of us. Now, to all daters out there who continuously go out and have fun, congratulations and keep it up until you find your perfect match. For those who want to try dating but seem afraid to make the first step, read on. I think I know what you need.

I know that there are a lot of people out there who want to give online dating a chance. The problem is, when are you going to start? Which leads to my online dating tip number one.

Stop Procrastinating. Yes most of you say, okay, I want to date this girl. But first, I need to find a job! Yes, you do need a job, but don’t go looking for a job for the wrong reasons. You need a job to earn a living and it is a fact of life. You don’t go seeking for a job because you want to date someone. So, when you say you want to date someone, but only after you get a job; that’s just you procrastinating. You aren’t really going to look for a job. You are only using it to convince yourself that it’s not yet time to date. You are only using the job alibi not to date the girl. So, why do we procrastinate? The answer is dating tip number 2.

Stop Being Afraid. So, what are you afraid of? If you ask a girl to go out with you, the worst she can say is “no”. What’s so scary about that? Dating is a numbers game. The more people you ask, the better chances of ending up with a date. But rejection is not the only thing you fear. You are afraid of change, afraid of getting out of your comfort zone, and simply afraid because you don’t have confidence in yourself. Remember, you can’t die of dating — unless you are trying to date the mistress of a very jealous and violent drug lord! Other than that, you are safe.

Build Confidence. Listen, the main reason why you are afraid is because you don’t have trust in yourself. You are thinking that you might screw up, and most probably you will. But that shouldn’t stop you from dating. Again, dating is a numbers game, the more you expose yourself to it, the better you become. So get ready for failures. When you fail, analyze why you failed, then learn from that experience. Make failure as a stepping stone to your success. Think of yourself as a slab of a marble stone, rough with no form at all. Experience is your sculptor, and learning from your failures is the chisel that experience uses to form you into a better person. As experience hones your dating skills, or any skills at that matter, confidence will grow in you. Now, why don’t you have confidence in the first place?

Stop Being Negative. Being negative is not healthy. This stops progress. Instead of you going forward, it halts you from where you are and that would be the most pathetic stage in your life. Have you ever seen any successful people, or happy couples who are negative? Most negative people are not happy, because they only believe in the bad things in life. They don’t get what they really deserve because they think of things that don’t really exist, but become real because they believe they will happen. So, start looking at the bright side of life. If you are happy with what you do, the more you will do it. So, if you believe dating is going to make you happy, then why wouldn’t you start right away?

To sum up, you are the master of your destiny. If you succeed, you deserve recognitions and pats on the back. If you fail, you definitely deserve a slap. This is your Online Date Man wishing you the best dates of your life. Happy Dating!

Hello there. Your Online Date Man is ready to answer some of the interesting questions we received through email. Here’s one which really caught my attention. It’s from a guy named James…

Dear Billy,

What do you think is the best way to stop falling hair? I think it’s the real reason why I can’t get a date. My hairline is receding at a lightning rate and it’s draining the confidence from me. Please help! Thanks.

James

Hi, James. What can stop falling hair? Hmmm… the floor? Listen buddy, I too have a receding hairline. But that doesn’t bother me. In fact, I even shave my head completely from time to time ‘coz some women find it sexy in a Vin Diesel kind of way.

James, it’s like this. You have to take steps to accepting that male pattern baldness for you is probably inevitable and nothing – neither weird massages nor Rogaine — can completely stop its progression. What you need to do is to accept it with arms wide open. Be confident. Lack of confidence is the only reason why you won’t get dates. Guys like Nic Cage, Bruce Willis, and Sean Connery can probably attest to that (of course, their fame and fortune help, too. But let’s not go there).

Anyway, what you should do is to stop focusing on your head and focus on something else you need to develop to boost that dwindling confidence. For example, try power dressing. You’ll attract women by the way you carry yourself and through your snazzy dress sense. Think Sean Puffy Combs. Or work on your personality development by developing a hypnotic, endearing personality trait.

There are a lot of things you can do to get your confidence back. And one important thing you should do is to stop sulking and never think that because your hair is waving goodbye, you’re already a worthless person. I heard a very confident bald guy once claim that “God created many heads; those he didn’t like – he covered ‘em!”

With that, I wish you good luck in getting your confidence back. Most women are not shallow, as long as they know that you are worth the time they spend being with you, they’ll accept you because of who you are and not what you have or what you lack. I hope this online dating advice will help you get back your moxie – if not your hair! Have a great weekend and enjoy it as much as I will!