As a dating coach, I’d like to give my 2 cents here.

You DON’T need to have money to go on a date: watching the sun set or the sun rise together, take a stroll down the beach, count the stars together at night…

All examples of things to do on a date that won’t cost you a single dollar, while every single on woman likes it and thinks it’s real romantic.

You DON’T need to have money to find love either: although men are attracted to beauty, youth, and material things like shiny cars, suits and so on? Women aren’t.

Women are attracted to personality and charisma, but here’s the thing:

Women expect men to fall for the same things (so men falling for personality) and men expect women to fall for looks, material things (money, power, etc.) just like they do.

Both sexes project their own wishes, wants, and needs on the other sex. I call this “Attraction Circuitry Projection.”

It’s the sole reason for women being disappointed by men and men disappointed by women in the dating game. It’s why the battle of the sexes exist.

Don’t get me wrong, looks count for women too and personality for men to… but it’s only 10% of attraction to them, while looks matter for 90% to men and perosnality 90% to women.

Anyone telling you otherwise, should read Geoffrey Miller’s brilliant book The Mating Mind.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women