People think they’ll be more attractive online when they spice things up a bit with some “white lies”. TV show two and a half men spoofed this: Allan Harper pretended to be the chiropractor of the stars, while we was just a chiropractor…

Sure, maybe it will get you more responses online and maybe you’ll even get a woman’s phone number… but this is the brutal truth:

As soon as you’re face to face with a woman on a date? You won’t be able to keep up the lies and even if you do, she won’t like you for who you truly are… she likes your lie.

But as a dating coach I can say that 9 out of 10 times women will discover that you aren’t who you said you were, don’t behave like you did online… and they’ll be gone before you can say “ha!”.

Lying on your profile won’t get you anywhere, because as soon as you go on an actual date… your lie will come to the light. Plus, you need to ask yourself why you’re lying. Maybe it’s because you’re insecure and need to fix your confidence, before it ruins the relationship you’re building with the person who believed the lie.

Insecurities will catch upw tih you, handle those before you handle your online dating success.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women